pretty independent, but in today's story we find out about a love affair
that was quite remarkable in life, and death.
Better get out the tissues, you might need them.
Let us know if you've ever experienced of a similar story.
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BROKEN HEART
by Bobbi Hahn
They were an unlikely pair -- she, an adult Maine Coon, sleek and
dignified, elegant and graceful in all of her movements -- he, a young,
immature grey tomcat, large and boisterous, playful and quick moving.
When they joined our household a year apart, I had no idea what
was in store for all of us.
They nevertheless fell in love, and eventually it became obvious
that Griz was pregnant. I'd never had a pregnant cat, so I consulted
the vet for all the details on what I needed to know, and do, when the
time came for her to give birth. His advice was, basically, provide
her with a safe, comfortable place and then get out of her way, letting
Mother Nature take over.
Griz went into labor on a Sunday morning, just as we were preparing
to leave for church. I hoped witnessing a miracle might take precedence
over attendance at Mass just this once, so I decided to allow our sons
to stay home.
The area beside our claw-foot tub had been chosen by Griz as her
labor room, so we prepared a nice soft bed of fluffy towels for her. She
seemed uncomfortable, and I wished I could do something for her, but
the vet's advice stayed with me, and I resumed my role as bystander.
Gus, however, had not heard the vet's advice, and would not have
heeded it anyway. The love of his life was in pain, and he comforted
her as best he could. He'd go in there and lick her face as if to
say, "I'm here, Griz, and I'll be by your side every step of the way."
We've all heard of expectant fathers pacing the floor in Maternity wards,
and Gus did the same, checking in with Griz frequently, softly petting
her with his paw.
The hours passed, and finally the first kitten was born -- how cool
was that? Gus helped Griz clean the little creature, as he did with
the other three she eventually produced. I'd been hesitant at first
to allow him near the kittens because I'd heard of some males eating
their young, but he was always such a loving cat that I took the chance.
In any event, I don't think I'd have been able to keep him away.
Griz was exhausted from her long labor and delivery, as we all
were from keeping watch, so everyone slept.
Over the next few days, the extent of Gus' devotion soon became
apparent. He would curl up beside Griz when she nursed the kittens,
like he just wanted to keep her company and be close to her and his
little family. When it looked like Griz needed a break from mothering,
Gus would take her place, curling on his side and allowing the kittens to
cuddle up against him. He'd remain in that position for extended periods
of time, only leaving when one of the kittens tried to nurse. He'd stand
up quickly as if to say, "I'll babysit, but the nursing stuff is OUT!"
I'd often find them all asleep together, Mom and Dad curled tightly
around their babies, all snug and safe in a warm cocoon of feline fur.
Gus and Griz groomed the kittens together, washing those adorable
little faces and holding down a reluctant participant with a firm but
gentle paw.
When I took Griz to the vet for her checkup, I mentioned what a
great help Gus was with the kittens, and I asked if that was normal for
a male cat, since I'd never had experience with a cat "couple." He said
he'd never heard of anything like it!
The kittens eventually went to good homes, and their parents seemed
to accept their departures with a minimum of fuss, resuming the routine
that had been normal for them before childbirth (well, kittenbirth!)
Their lives were uneventful for a few years, until Gus became ill.
The diagnosis of cancer was a blow to us all, but I vowed that we'd
fight this thing with everything we had. On the days when he was feeling
low, Griz comforted him, as he'd once done for her. Gussie fought the
good fight, but we lost him when he was only four and a half years old.
Griz was inconsolable, and her pitiful cries could be heard all
over the house, as she searched for her faithful companion. She never
stopped looking for him, and would spend hours looking out the windows,
waiting by the door, peering into his favorite hiding places. She was
no longer interested in playing with their toys, and her shiny coat
became dull. When she began losing weight, I took her to the vet, who
could find nothing physically wrong with her. He said some cats just
give up when their companion dies.
Griz died a year after Gus -- the vet described the cause of death
as a broken heart. Although I was devastated, I knew she no longer
mourned for him. I believe they're together at the Rainbow Bridge,
joyous at their reunion, enjoying time with their kittens and grandkittens
and great-grandkittens.
-- Bobbie Hahn <bobbi at bobbihahn.com>
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Bobbi is a freelance writer who lives with her husband, John, and
two cats, Mozart and Annabelle, beside a lagoon on a barrier island
off the coast of South Carolina. She is a frequent contributor to
Heartwarmers and Petwarmers. More of her work can be seen on her website:
http://www.bobbihahn.com
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